Here ist the next round. I found 2 doubles, but it was not the real solution for my problem and here is the result from the order.
/usr/lib/openldap/slapd -u ldap -g ldap -F /etc/openldap/slapd.d -h 'ldaps:// ldap:// ldapi://%2fvar%2frun%2fopenldap%2fslapd.sock' -d 256
@(#) $OpenLDAP: slapd 2.3.24 (Jul 27 2006 12:30:01) $
@kagome:/var/tmp/portage/openldap-2.3.24-r1/work/openldap-2.3.24/servers/slapd
invalid config directory /etc/openldap/slapd.d, error 2
slapd stopped.
connections_destroy: nothing to destroy.
Now after a kolabconf I see this.
Sep 26 00:40:19 filmhost postfix/pickup[17006]: 3A6EF600F9: uid=10 from=<uucp>
Sep 26 00:40:19 filmhost postfix/cleanup[17021]: warning: dict_ldap_connect: Unable to bind to server ldap://127.0.0.1:389 as cn=nobody,cn=internal,dc=filmcom,dc=de: -1 (Can't contact LDAP server)
Sep 26 00:40:19 filmhost postfix/cleanup[17021]: warning: 3A6EF600F9: virtual_alias_maps map lookup problem for
raf@gmx.deSep 26 00:40:19 filmhost postfix/pickup[17006]: warning: maildrop/BAF2B5FA01: Error writing message file
Sep 26 00:41:19 filmhost postfix/pickup[17006]: 3C5D1600F9: uid=10 from=<uucp>
Sep 26 00:41:19 filmhost postfix/cleanup[17021]: warning: dict_ldap_connect: Unable to bind to server ldap://127.0.0.1:389 as cn=nobody,cn=internal,dc=filmcom,dc=de: -1 (Can't contact LDAP server)
Sep 26 00:41:19 filmhost postfix/cleanup[17021]: warning: 3C5D1600F9: virtual_alias_maps map lookup problem for
raf@gmx.deSep 26 00:41:19 filmhost postfix/pickup[17006]: warning: maildrop/BAF2B5FA01: Error writing message file
Sep 26 00:41:46 filmhost Error: Unable to connect to LDAP server `127.0.0.1:389'
Sep 26 00:41:46 filmhost Warning: Unable to read configuration data from LDAP