Thanks for the report!
That kolabd stops is certainly not intentional

This indicates that it hits a bug and shuts down. kolabd reports to syslog and you can try to increase the log leven in /etc/kolab/kolab.globals to get more information.
The squatter on the hand is intentional and should help to speed up imap search operations. For small systems/mailboxes you can probably turn it of.
I'm actually suprised to see that the ebuilds still work that nicely for people trying Kolab. The 2.1 Version was an early draft and still has plenty of problems. But it also showed me what needs to be improved for the next versions. Working on that

Cheers,
Gunnar